Valentine’s Day is for lovers — but you don’t need a romantic soulmate to celebrate. Experts say the holiday is a chance to consider just how rich, diverse and beneficial every form of love is.

If you’re looking for something fun, playful and a little out of the ordinary, here are two date ideas that promise to bring laughter, spontaneity and lasting benefits.

Loved ones can provide the inspiration for behavior changes that can extend your lifespan – and even make them alongside you.