He won’t move out because he believes marriage is forever and he doesn’t want our teenage children to think he is deserting them.

I told my husband I was done in our marriage during a marriage-counseling session close to nine months ago. This was our second round of marriage counseling. I have also done some therapy on my own. I have not taken any actions to indicate I’m done other than to occasionally remind my husband that I’m the one that wants out when he thinks things are harmonious.

I don’t feel like I should move out because I bought the house before we were married. His name is not on the title nor hardly any of the utilities. He never even changed his address on his driver’s license.

Her ashes are in a box in our garage. Many times, over the years, they were going to spread her ashes somewhere, but it never fully happened. Some of the ashes were spread at various locations that she loved.