As Chilly said, if you want to grow wisteria, "keep it in containers and far from other plants it can grab onto!" But if it's already taking over, UF recommends removing it carefully, cutting off ...
If you are attracted to the regal Bridgerton wisteria look but don't think you have the space think again. Even small gardens can be adorned with the waterfall of the climber’s blooms.
Wisteria should be grafted onto a rootstock so you get exactly the variety you want. Check the plant that isn’t suckering (sending out shoots) from the bottom. Avoid plants raised from seed as these ...